While having breakfast with our friends Roy and Rosemary Millar yesterday Hilary noticed a little bird in their back garden in what appeared to be a cage.
“No, that’s not a cage” Roy said. “It’s a feeder. The birds are able to fly in, eat the seed, and then fly out again.”
The happy finch now refueled took off in flight towards Belfast Lough. We too having feasted on Rosemary’s ‘healthy’ version of the deadly Ulster fry set off in the same direction for a stroll along the shoreline.
The wide-ranging conversation between Roy and I, two former doctors, turned to the world’s ills.
Roy mentioned Victor Frankl, holocaust survivor and founder of “logotherapy”. In Frankl’s best selling book “Man’s Search for Meaning” he chronicles his experiences as a concentration camp inmate, which led him to discover the importance of finding meaning in all forms of existence, even the most brutal ones, and thus, a reason to continue living.
Roy quoted the figure of 60% of all illness being traceable to people failing to find purpose in life.
He recalled the story of the Ten Boom sisters, also concentration camp inmates. Corrie, author of The Hiding Place, told of how it was her older sister Betsy’s trust in a God who worked all things together for good, (even the lice, which kept the German guards at bay!) who was the inspiration for her survival and subsequent fruitfulness as a witness of Christ throughout her long life.
I recalled another elderly lady and ‘hero of faith’ we had just visited. Maureen had left with her new husband for Africa soon after they married. They both knew that the doctors had said that given Jim’s poor health, a move to the climate of Malawi, or Nyasaland as it then was, would be a fatal decision. Convinced this was how they were being lead, they went anyway. Jim outlived the doctors predictions but still died as a relatively young man. Maureen stayed on identifying fully in language and living with her new African ‘family’ When she finally retired and returned to Northern Ireland her daughter brought her along to our community where she experienced the power of the Spirit in community. “I have to go back and bring this new dimension of the ‘good news’ to my people” she said, and so instead of winding down to enjoy a well earned rest in her later years she found a job back in her beloved Malawi and became a door for others to go and serve her family there.
I remember the first meeting we had with the local leaders there being told, “Whatever our mother Maureen tells us….we will do!” such was the respect in which she was held.
As we entered the common area of the Belfast nursing home she had just moved to, we realized this could not be an easy transition from her last assisted living situation. There she was surrounded by others who were mentally alert but because of her physical limitations she now found herself wheelchair bound and the only ‘lucid’ person in the room. When she saw us walk in her countenance brightened!
We moved to a more private space. “It’s the fellowship I miss.” she said, “……but I shouldn’t complain. they are very good to me here.” We talked for a while recounting God’s faithfulness in our lives and when the time came came to leave, I said, “Can we pray together?” “Oh yes please” Maureen beamed.
As her head turned upwards, eyes closed, her face was transformed into the most beautiful visage one could imagine, and as she opened her mouth to speak to the one she loved, oh so much, volumes of thanksgiving and praise, that delighted little bird took flight from what looked to us like a cage, and soared into the clear blue sky…………