Over the past few months we lost 3 close friends, and the world lost 3 good men.
A Good Man was written in honor of Pete Lundin a true American hero. Scott Stroud came to live with Pete and Sandy after coming to faith in prison, and we too are personally indebted to ‘realtor’ Sandy for matchmaking us with The Big Green House!
Pete’s discipleship helped Scott like many others he ‘fathered’ become an amazing asset in the kingdom of God. Scott’s song says it so eloquently.
If Pete was A Good Man, Brian was A True Friend.
When we moved to the USA despite Brian’s high profile public life, for example as a President of Irish Hockey, and of the Independant Insurance Brokers in the UK , he and Liz always made a point of remembering birthdays and seeing us when we were home to offer brilliant advice in areas where I lacked wisdom and know how and to keep us laughing with the best of Belfast humor😀 He was often 1st to open my latest blog….even if it was in the middle of his night!
For us, Brian was a true friend…….. integrity going the distance!
If Brian was A True Friend, John, was A Kindly Neighbor.
John lived 4 doors down and was a rough diamond, but with a heart of corn as the ducks would attest to swooping down to literally enjoy the corn he sprinkled on the snow for them in the midst of a harsh Minnesotan winter.
He would for example arrive at our house with a bike he had found and repaired for one of the grandkids. Then one day when he dislocated his shoulder he arrived……for me to fix it! Doctoring days far behind I did my best with the help of YouTube, but failed to reduce it.
‘We’ll just have to ask God to do it’ I said, laying my hand once more on his shoulder.
A few days later he returned waving his healed arm overhead!
I realized Father had given me a song for John years before his death which contained the line ‘a kindly neighbor’
Below is Ben’s recording of this song, ‘A Rising Sun’
https://benkyle.com/track/4225095/a-rising-sun
A few years ago a knock came to the door. It was again, our ‘kindly neighbor.‘
‘Look’ He said to me, pointing to the rainbow in the sky.
‘Do you know what that means?’
‘It’s God saying, “I will always love you.” ‘
John explained that although he had never learned to read himself, his mother used to read him Bible stories, including the story of Noah and the flood.
So at the funeral service, 2 of the 5 songs I shared were specially personalized by God for his beloved son, John!!
The Father’s Song from the last blog was also for him…..
Everyone’s beautiful in their time
It just takes time to prove
That the pleasure and pain
Like the sun and the rain
Make you part of my rainbow of love.












